Bad temper is a barrier to relationships but you have a right to be angry, nasty, miserable, whatever. Does that make it right?
You have a right to be depressed. You also have the right to overcome it.
You have a right to be negative. But why would you want to be?
You have a right to be positive.
You have a right to be free from anxiety.
You have a right to be even tempered and placid.
Know your rights.
For those not familiar with haiku, it is a form of Japanese poetry, the criteria being to present an image, evoke a mood and make an observation. There are three lines with five syllables in the first and last line and seven syllables in the middle line. Example:
Peeling an orange (5) image
the bitter juice squirts my eye (7) mood, feel the sting
one blink and it’s gone. (5) observe disappearance
And now I’d like to share with you a couple of haikus I have written over the years which will appear in my upcoming poetry book.
He had a tantrum
it spoiled my serenity
and made me angry.
Dinner was superb
red snapper on the menu
tasty on the tongue.
Crouched low in the grass
sly cat watched bird eat its meal
one pounce, bird was meal.
His gait was rapid
head bent low against the storm
heading for shelter.
That’s all for now, folks. Thank you for any comments.
I posted this on Facebook a couple of days ago and may or may not have blogged it in the past but it is a life lesson worth repeating. It comes from a book written by Agnes Sanford, The Healing Light.
Anger tends to destroy the body. It also tends to destroy the soul. The anger that solidifies into hate, resentment, or hurt feelings deposits a continual sediment of poison in nerves, arteries, bones and mind, and prepares the body for death.
Why would we do that to ourselves?
Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. Ephesians 4:31 NIV
Well, he is just like us…or rather we are like him…in the following ways:
He experienced sadness: Then he said to them, “My soul is overwhelmed with sorrow to the point of death…” Matthew 26:38 NIV
He experienced anger: Now leave me alone so that my anger may burn against them…Exodus 32:10
He experienced frustration: Jesus replied, “You are a respected Jewish teacher, and yet you don’t understand these things?” John 3:10 NLT
He experienced disappointment: Then he returned to his disciples and found them sleeping. “Couldn’t you men keep watch with me for one hour?” he asked Peter. Matthew 26:40 NIV
He experienced jealousy: for I, the LORD your God, am a jealous God…Deuteronomy 5:9 NIV
He experienced love: “…As I have loved you, so you must love one another.” John 13:34 NIV
Now, here is Genesis 1:26: Then God said, “Let us make mankind in our image, in our likeness…” which takes us back to the opening sentence.
But like I said in Friday’s blog, we humans began to mess up on earth and God was sorry he had made us…just look at this statement:
The LORD regretted that he had made human beings on the earth, and his heart was deeply troubled. Genesis 6:6 NIV
But the Good News is this: For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. John 3:16
Following Palm Sunday, Jesus went to the temple and found it being used as a marketplace. At this point he had less than a week to live.
Jesus at the Temple
45 When Jesus entered the temple courts, he began to drive out those who were selling. 46 “It is written,” he said to them, “‘My house will be a house of prayer’; but you have made it ‘a den of robbers.’”
47 Every day he was teaching at the temple. But the chief priests, the teachers of the law and the leaders among the people were trying to kill him. 48 Yet they could not find any way to do it, because all the people hung on his words.
It has been my practice over the years to take notes from interesting books and tuck them away for future reference after gleaning the wisdom of the moment. The other day it was something from “Your Call is Waiting”. Today it is a passage from The Measure of a Man by Sidney Poitier. And it is simply this: “…I have a great respect for the kinds of people who are able to recycle their anger and put it to different uses.”
How timely given what’s going on in the world today. So as the saying goes, ‘take a page from that book’ (page 124). Imagine if we all recycled our anger into peace and reconciliation…we could then sing along with Louis Armstrong, “what a wonderful world”.
Thank you, Sidney, for another life lesson.
Sometimes I wish I had studied theology instead of bookkeeping. There are so many Bible stories that confuse me, like the one a friend reminded me of this morning… the biblical brothers, Cain and Abel in Genesis 4. These boys were the first fruits of Adam and Eve, their parents.
The scripture says the Lord looked with favor upon Abel but not on Cain, and this made Cain angry; angry enough to kill his brother. It was the first murder ever committed on earth.
My friend posed the question, “If God looked with favor upon Abel, why did God let Cain kill him?”
My question is, if God looks upon us with favor…and we’re told he does…why does he allow bad things to happen to good people?
We have a dear friend and church member whose cancer is spreading even though we took the advice of James 5:14 and had the elders pray over her and anoint her with oil. Instead of getting better, her condition deteriorated to the point where the cancer has reached her brain.
“The unfolding of your words gives light; it gives understanding to the simple.” Psalms 119:130
I am a simple person, Lord, and need understanding of James 5:14; and while you are at it, what about Cain and Abel?